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Name: Jenny
What was the date of the first day of your last menstrual period? January 20, 2000
How was the pregnancy ended? started bleeding 2:20 am on March 6
Were you using birth control? yes
Comments:
My boyfriend and I had a condom break on exactly the wrong weekend. I knew it too. The two of us worried about it for two weeks, and when I didn’t start bleeding on time (which never fails to happen) and I noticed my breasts were more prominent (the only thing I wish would stay) and were very tender, I looked up your site. Originally, I had been looking for prices on what clinical abortions cost. When this site popped up, I thought I’d give it a look. Then, after reading through it, I decided to give it a try.
On Friday the 25th, I started taking 500 mg of vitamin c every hour, starting at 5 PM. The next day, I upped it to 1000 mg every hour and a half. Then I upped it again to 1000 mg every hour. The first night, I was really good about getting up every hour to take it. But then I started having a really hard time hearing my alarm and not turning it off in my sleep. Add to that the factor that I had a queasy feeling that I had gotten the wrong kind of vitamin c. (It turns out I did. I had gotten the kind with rose hips in it. A big no-no!!) So at noon on Monday, I ended taking the vitamins and started taking ½ mL (15 drops) of dong quai in hot tea every four hours. This, too, I had trouble keeping it up at night. So I decided to start doubling it to 1 mL (30 drops) every 4 hours. To my dismay, I ran out of it at 8 PM on Saturday and would not be able to get more until at least Monday afternoon. I decided that I would call up the local Planned Parenthood on Monday to make an appointment. It seemed that it was possible that the symptoms were disappearing, but I wasn’t certain. I figured I had messed it all up by not being careful enough to take it on time and figured my best hope was that I had done enough damage to create a miscarriage.
On Monday morning at 2:20 am, sitting at the computer, I started bleeding. All it seems to be so far is just a little heavier than normal with large “chunks” of thick material. From the other testimonies, I expected to get at least a little cramping (when I usually have none), but I assumed wrong.
The decision to end the pregnancy was one I felt I had to make. Following through with it could have meant postponing my college and my boyfriend’s career. I do want children someday, but now is just not the time. I’m so glad that this route worked, but I hope I never have to visit it again. The only person I could ask support from was my boyfriend who is hours away right now. I really wish I could have shared what was going on with more people but it was not to be.
Is there anything you would have done differently? I would have bought the correct vitamin c and more of the dong quai. I should have also been more diligent in making sure I kept to my schedule and NOT GOTTEN PREGNANT IN THE FIRST PLACE!
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